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Self Induce Labor?

Can I Self Induce Labor?

by Lena Leino

If you feel as big as a house and have serious difficulties in sleeping, swollen feet that feel like a ton of bricks, cramps, pain in your back, bulging varicose veins, painful hemorrhoids, and difficulty in breathing and in moving around and constantly need to use the restroom — it’s quite understandable that you are looking for natural ways to self induce labor.

The fact is that a typical pregnancy lasts 40 weeks. Sometimes, the pregnant mother may think that inducing labor is a good idea, though the baby may feel otherwise. Inducing labor naturally is usually a safe procedure.

However, as the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends, you shouldn’t try to induce labor before your pregnancy has reached 40 weeks. In addition, you should never attempt self inducing labor without the full knowledge of your healthcare provider.

So, what can you do to help your body to start labor naturally? There are quite a few natural labor inducing remedies. Some are more effective and safer than others.

One of the legendary labor inducing remedy is the “Prego Pizza”. It was originally created by Skipolini’s Pizza in Clayton, California in early 1980’s. The story tells of a woman in a very advanced state of pregnancy who happened to step into this restaurant and jokingly asked for a pizza that would make her have the baby soon.

The chef created a masterpiece that had six types of meat and was loaded with fresh vegetables and extra onions and extra garlic. The deeply pregnant woman left the restaurant after eating the newly created “Prego Pizza” — and gave birth to a baby boy on that very same evening.

Basilica and oregano, which are common pizza toppings, have stimulant properties on the uterus. In aromatherapy circles, these herbs and their essential oils are to be avoided, whenever possible, during pregnancy. Thus, basilica and oregano might be behind the success of the “Prego Pizza”.

Pineapple is said to induce labor as well. Pineapple, as well as papaya and mango, contain a proteolytic enzyme called bromelain. When bromelain is consumed with meals, it assists in the digestion of proteins.

When taken on an empty stomach, bromelain acts medicinally as an anti-inflammatory agent. Therefore, naturopathic medicine uses this enzyme to reduce pain and swelling.

The mechanism by which pineapple contributes to inducing labor might be the proteolytic action of bromelain. Bromelain might help to soften the connective tissue of the cervix and, thus, bring on labor.

Because bromelain is destroyed in the production process of canned pineapple, you should consume only fresh pineapple flesh if you are trying to induce labor with pineapple. If your cervix is unripe — and you are not fond of eating plenty of pineapple — you can also use prostaglandin to help soften and ripen the cervix. You can use prostaglandins directly on the cervix or you can take it orally.

Evening primrose oil is an excellent source of prostaglandins. The general recommendation is to take 3-4 primrose oil capsules (500 mg per capsule) daily.

Primrose oil can also be applied directly on the cervix if your membranes are intact (and you have not been diagnosed with placenta previa). Use the oil on your fingers to apply it on the cervix. If you have difficulties to reach it, ask your partner to insert the entire capsule into your vagina just before bedtime.

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About the Author of “Can I Self Induce Labor?”

One of the most effective methods to self induce labor is acupressure. It has been proven to work, and to be safe for both the mother and the baby. Discover more by visiting http://www.MaternityAcupressure.com/acupressure-induces-labor.html for more information.

Article by Lena Leino, author of a new labor acupressure guide “Easier, Shorter and Safer Birth”

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162 Responses to “Self Induce Labor?”


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I am living proof that pizza will induce labor. I went into labor the first time about 3 hours after eating pizza. When I got to the hospital, the nurse asked me what I had eaten and when I told her I had pizza for dinner, she said “aaahhhh, that is what started your labor”. I was skeptical, and thought it was just a coincidence. When I became pregnant again, I decided to test that theory, so I avoided pizza my entire pregnancy until I was about 38 weeks. I had 2 slices at 8 p.m, at 1 a.m my water broke and I went in to labor. This might not work for everyone, I think there has to be other contributing factors, but I know that this did indeed happen to me.

momtozzz…..please tell me what kind of pizza you ate. i am 38 weeks and so ready! And love pizza!

I ate the meat lover’s pizza from Pizza Hut. I remember because I was dreading the heartburn, which I always get from eating it regardless, but a friend of mine who had delivered about a month earlier said to try that kind, since it has plenty of spicy meats. Good luck!!!

Yeah i don’t know about the pizza because i have really bad heart burn all the time. Well for the past 3 months it has been horrible. I also eat pineapple all the time and still nothing.I am 39 weeks. I need better help than this. My cervix isn’t even soft.

hi can you please tell me what toppings were on your pizza so i can try it im 39weeks and fed up.im due next week and want baby out asap! lol

so im 39 weeks and i am sick of being prego.
what can i do to hurry it up? my doctor is sayin oh next week oh next week and im fed up and ready now. help =[

If you get a pizza from an actual privately owned pizzaria that does the fresh oregano and basil on it get with the marinara (without if your religion does not allow wine cause many do have it) or if you ahve to get the white sauce have them generaously mix basil thyme and oregano into it and they toss more on top of the cheese with peppers onions and jalpenos!! (if you cna handle the spice when you get it top that off with crushed red peppers and hot sauce) now thye will tell you spicy food makes labor worse but heck it didnt for me!! you do want to stay away from too many heavy meats if you are trying to induce labor because it will end up coming out in the most embarassing way!! and none of us wann asee what we ate hours after we ate it!! also its more of the herbs placed in the meats and sauces you want!!

I am willing to try anything so tonight I am making my way to the local pizza hut for the Meat lovers pizza. I am currently 41 weeks pregnant and am @ my WITS end, have tried a lot of different idea’s to get labor started but haven’t been succesfull. Hopefully this will be the LAST thing I try as I am getting pretty insane about labor not starting yet…
Wish Me luck and hopefully I will get my wish…
Shera

I’m desperate to get my son home 2 me! I’m 38 weeks and recently had an accident were i fell and hurt my back and i’m in serious pain…I’ve tried many things to induce labor naturally but i just got a lil cramps here and their..nothing! I’m 2D and 70% last tue…Any suggestions that u guys know work? Tonight i had pizza from pizza hut so maybe it will work (any more sug?)

THE PIZZA DIDNT WORK NEITHER DID N-E THING ELSE SOOO JUST WAIT TILL ITS TIME OR ASK YOUR DOCTOR TO ENDUCE LIKE I DID!

I AM 39 WEEKS I HAVE SEVERE CARPAL TUNNEL IN BOTH HANDS AND NEED TOO BE INDUCED HELP!!!

FRESH pineapple definitely worked for me. I think some people are more sensitive to it than others though. If you like it, it doesn’t hurt to give it a try. At the very least it’s a healthy snack.

My doctor told me at 2pm on a Thursday that I hadn’t dilated, hadn’t dropped and that there was no chance I’d deliver within the next week. I was at 37 weeks, but the doctor thought my son was going to be too large. He wanted to see me on Monday to schedule a C-Section. I figured I’d give the fresh pineapple a shot. Stopped at the store on the way home. Over the course of the afternoon/evening I ate around 3/4 of it (I love it so it was a nice treat).

I woke up the next morning with an upset stomach but figured it was just the pineapple trying to get out. I didn’t really believe it would work, not that fast anyway. My labor was very mild(although I contribute that to luck not pineapple), I didn’t have typical contractions, just needed to go to the bathroom frequently.

My son (first baby) was born at 9pm Friday night, about an hour and a half after I got to the hospital. Without typical contractions, I couldn’t believe I was having any more problem than fruit overindulgence. If we hadn’t been driving by the hospital he’d have been born at home. I was 5cm when I got there. My doctor couldn’t get there in time, the nurses grabbed the one OB they could find who was visiting patients at the little hospital.

I am 27 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I know it’s too early to have him, but I am so tired of being pregnant. Right now, I cant even sit in a chair because my ribs dig into my uterus and it hurts. I get braxton hicks contractions and that makes me soooo mad cuz he’’s not comming any time soon. Doc gave us 4 weeks until I go into labor because my tiny frame can’t carry him to term. I admit. I did try to induce myself and neither the pizza or pinapple thing worked. I just had horrid heart burn and a horrid tummy ache in the morn. I need other ideas! please!!!

THINK ABOUT YOUR CHILD AND HIS STRUGGLE TO LIVE OUTSIDE OF YOUR BODY! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CRAZY FOR WANTING TO INDUCE LABOR UPON YOURSELF AT 27 WEEKS!!! YOU MIGHT AS WELL GET AN ABORTION!!

ARE YOU SERIOUS???? TRYING TO INDUCE YOUR LABOR AT 27 WEEKS?? THAT IS THE MOST AWFUL, SELFISH THING I HAVE EVER HEARD. I AGREE WITH STEPHANIE - MIGHT AS WELL HAVE AN ABORTION. SUCK IT UP AND THINK ABOUT YOUR POOR CHILD.

i will be 40 weeks on june 8th i am so miserable and none of these things will work for me either i have just decided to let my little boy decide when but i donot agree with stephanie or nicole abortion is never the answer as for crystal i have a cousin who had a very small frame and went into labor early just hang in there girl youll make it

I am going to be 37 weeks pregnant in one day. I have not tried anything to induce labour other than just walking which I have done throughout my whole pregnancy. I don’t think it’s a good idea for anyone who is under 37 weeks pregnant to try to induce labour because it’s not safe for the baby. So for all the women who are still considered preterm should just take it easy. You have made it this far, why not a couple of more days. The baby will come when it’s time.

to all of you soon to be moms who just want your baby out ( BUT ARE CONSIDERED FULL TERM!!) try castor oil! its a natural lax. that you can buy at walgreens or ne drug store and trust me it works!!!!!

I am due on the 8th June, and have just eaten a whole pineapple! I really want it to work as I have severe sciatica and can hardly move sometimes (not good when you have a 15 month old to look after too) May just try a pizza tonight too

Will keep you posted as to whether it works or not!

hey ladies,i am 39weeks preg 2day with my 2nd baby and really really want him out now! have tried hot curries,castor oil,loads of walkin,accupressure,hot baths n nothin is working :( with my 1st son i took 2 spoons of castor oil and had him less thn 24hrs later. anymore suggestions on how 2 bring labour on? NO SEX tho lolol
baby is fully engaged and just being stubborn. thnk he gets it frm his daddy hehe

Hey i have a son thats 2 and im 38 weeks and i have had a really hard pregnancy in and out of the hospital and the docters just keep sending me home dont understand why but anyways im trying to induce my labour i am 2 cm and i just tried castol oil yesterday around 9pm all it did was keep me on the toilet and i walk all the time i cant have sex cause i cant get comfortable for more then 1 min so just wondering if anyone has any better ideas to go in with 24 hours i am soo uncomfortable and in pain cant sleep cant eat PLEASE HELP……..

hey i am 39 weeks to day and tryed just about everthing and nothing is working i use to think drinking red rasberry leaf tea was the way to go because it worked with my first one but not this time. so i guess im just gonna have to wait this one out.

I had sex last night and ended up being so achy I could hardly stand up today. I am 38.5 wks pregnant with my 2nd and have had contractions all night and day… just waiting for them to get a bit closer. Sex wasn’t that bad after it got going :) This is the most “natural” thing I am willing to try at this point. Good luck, all!

Hi all, I am 39 weeks and I have tried mowing the lawn, eating pineapple, and walking. I am scheduled to be induced on Tuesday at 6 in the morning. With my son my water broke and I never went into labor so I was induced. Those contractions were horrible. I would prefer to go into labor by myself, ya know? I am 3 cm dilated, 80% effaced, and she is stationed at a -2, well before I mowed the 1 acre jungle. What can I do?

i am 37 weeks with my 2nd child and i am more than ready. i tried the pineapple and no luck. haven’t tried the pizza though. i am just waiting patiently but very exhausted. any other suggestions?

I am 40 wks along and have tried castor oil 3 different times in the past 2 wks. Started the evening primrose two nights ago and will be heading to get some pineapple shortly. I am 50% efaced, 1D…. Hoping something will work soon for me, too. I am scheduled to be induced next Wed. am so there is an end - however, would like my ‘lil one NOW. Good luck to you all and anxious to hear when you all deliver.

hi all. i sympathise with all of you (apart from crystal) i’m 37+weeks with no.5, seriously considering the oil as have had aches and pains for weeks now am shattered. good luck to all of you xx

Castor oil will only work if you’ve already started to dialate and efaced and then its a maybe. It also causes diarrhea, nausea, vomiting, and abdominal cramping. It’s also known to cause meconium in the amniotic fluid.

I am about 36 weeks prego and am thinking perhaps at about 38 weeks
i will maybe start trying to get things started on my own. This is my third pregnancy. My first labor experience began immediately after having 20 minute sex with my husband. My second child was 40 weeks to the day of conception, i tried everything with him including walking until I couldn’t move anymore, nothing worked, he just came on his own. So every pregnancy is different but the whole intercourse thing worked like a charm the first time. So I know its uncomfortable but if your that hard up to get going I would give it a try, in a couple of weeks that will the first thing I will try to get going.

Whole fat ice cream ladies. give it a try! my girl friend had both her daughters 12 days early n she ate the whole tub!=)

im glad 2 see im not the only one suffering (except crystal, shes just plan CRAZY!). Ill be 39 weeks on friday (in 2 days), and im 4 centimeters dilated and 50% effaced. this is my second pregnancy, with my daughter i was full term and was induced a day after my due date. I DO NOT want to be induced again just because i will know what to expect lol. I’ve tried everything from sex with the hubby, red raspberry leaf tea, walking (im a waitress, and still working so i walk ALOT!), and today i started the evening primrose oil (as my midwife told me to 2day at my appointment). Im so frustrated nothing is working!!! i cant believe ones body can be 4 centimeters dilated and just stop!!! how annoying! i would try the castor oil but im afraid of my son getting muconium in his lungs, i never tried it with my daughter and when my water broke with her she had the muconium in her water, but she was ok! so any other ideas would be greatly appreciated!!! thanks ladies!! =)

Hi There I am 38 Weeks And 2 Days I Have Had Bad Craps Tryed everything but the oil i just want this baby out this is my 3 my frist one came 7 days early from walking and my second one didnt come from walking she was 2 day over due and i really dont want to go over due again and i know the hole pizza thing dont work we here have at lease pizza every other 2 weeks and i just want to see this baby and dont want to hurt it in any way i would like to know something to help and Sex Out of the Question it Hurts Way to Much PLEASE Some One HELP ME thanks

I am not trying to iduce my labor but was looking for ideas for when that time came. I am pregnant with my 4th and have only had my first one half way naturally (my water broke but then I had to be induced). I HATE being induced. What did get my water to break was clean, clean, clean. I think it was the “nesting” instinct. I was scrubbing, mopping, polishing for hours. I also had stairs in my apartment so all the running up and down probably had something to do with it. All I know is I cleaned until I was wiped out and my water broke.

i am 33 weeks along with my secong child i have been on bed rest since i was 18 weeks along.. i eat pizza all the time.. i know it is a little early to have my daughter here with me but i am in so much pain and already having contractions.. just ready to have my 2nd angel here in my arms.. i will start walking tomorrow.. good luck to everyone, and god bless..

I was due on June 23rd. Its now June 28th. I hate being pregnant. Im a yoga teacher and i cant even move anymore! If sex doesnt work, which for me it definitely doesnt because i do that about twice a day, then I dont know how pineapple will but ill give it a try. any other ideas? Ill only need them this once because after this I will NEVER EVER get pregnant again. it has actually made me so angry that yoga doesnt even help and im already enrolled in kick-boxing classes to get over it. Ive just never been so angry about anything. not at the baby, just at the idea of not being able to move, dance, exercise, sit, or be comfortable on any level. and just when I think its going to be over, it goes on for longer… I just feel like shes never going to come out and im going to be pregnant forever.

the doctors say im only 34 weeks but everything says im 37 including all the ultrasounds belly measurements and symtoms. i have been haveing red flags go up for almost a month now and talk about the sever contractions! ive now got the pain increased by a hundred in my back, lower belly, crotch, and thighs almost to the oint where i cant move! what can i do? im only dialated a cenemeter and 50% effaced and they just send me home because my contractions arent regular in any way. they werent with my daughter either shes 3 now. ive tried sex, the tea, acupressure, and pineapple. it all only made the pain worse and my cervix isnt changeing!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!! please if anyone has any ideas on how to at least alleviate some of the pain i would be extatic!!!!!!!!

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I’m 40 weeks pregnant, 2 cm dilated, and have had my membranes stripped twice. I have tried everything to go into labor. Ladies, nothing works. You can think that your techniques are causing it, but its really just coincidence. The baby isn’t coming out until he or she is ready. And for the woman who wanted to have her child at 27 weeks, you are plain crazy. Think about your baby’s health instead of yourself.

I agree with everyone else who says that the lady that wants to induce at 27 weeks is insanely selfish!Think of the precious baby!And think of all the time he or she will spend in the neo-natal unit!The risks to the unborn baby FAR OUTWEIGH any discomfort that you’re in!I lost a baby at 19 weeks, and it’s not something you ever get over!All the doctors said it takes a minimum of 24 weeks for the baby to even survive!So you need to think about that precious LIFE inside you &do not do anything foolish! Talk to your OB/GYN,& maybe that will convince you to chill!

Crystal, perhaps you don’t realise quite how serious having a preterm baby is, I will give you the benefit of the doubt and also give you the benefit of my experience in the hope that these stories will change your mind about trying to induce your labour so early! My waters broke at 28 weeks with my first child, we don’t know why but the docotos spent 2 weeks trying to stop the contractions and had to give my baby steroid injections to help his little lungs develop - he was eventually born at 30 weeks despite all the efforts of the wonderful hospital staff to prevent early labour. I was one of the lucky ones - my son survived being born so early but he was in the special care baby unit for 3 months before he was allowed home, it is heartbreaking to see your tiny child hooked up to numerous machines just so they can breathe, so small the have to be fed through tubes directly into their stomach. Even cuddles aren’t allowed because they cannot regulate their temperature because they are so small so they have to stay in their incubators, you are lucky if you get to touch their hands once a day. As I said I was one of the lucky ones I know a wonderfully brave woman who gave birth to her beautiful little girl not so long back @26weks due to placenta abruption she was not so lucky she lost her daughter just 7 hours after she was born, I cannot begin to imagine the devastation she still feels. Another friend gave birth to her twin girls in June at just 27 weeks and they have been through such a struggle to survive, her one daughter is fighting for her life as we speak due to bowel disorders caused by her prematurity. Having a preterm baby is no joke and I hope that my stories help you see that. If you cannot give up 9 months for your child now how are you going to cope for the next 18 years??? You have to make so many sacrifices in life for your children, pregnancy is only the start. I hope that you see sense and stop trying to induce labour so early.

Hi I’m 39+1 With My First I Only Turned 17 On The 8th Of July This Year (I Know Im Young, But I Have Plenty Of Support) I Am At The Point Where I Would Be Willing To Try Anything Right Now… When My Partner Returns Home From Work He Is Going To See If He Can Tell Wether Baby Is Ready And Waiting Or If He Is Still Quite High Up (This Is Perfectly Safe The Midwife Said So) Then We’re Gonna Try Sex Then Going For A Long Walk And Then Ive Been Told That Guiness Or Wine Might Help… But I’m Not Sure On That I Dont Want To Harm My Baby, Ive Not Drunk Any Alcohol Since I Found Out I Was Pregnant And I Dont Want To If It Is Going To Harm Him, He Might Not React Well As It’ll Be The First Time He’s Had It … Is There Anything Else I Can Try, Ive Tried Eating Pineapple, Bumpy Car Rides, Sex And Long Walks Already Im Just Hoping Doing Sex, Car Ride, Long Walk And Then More Sex Will Work Later =) … I Hope No-one Assumes Ive Been Trying TO Induce MY Labour For A While Its Only Been The Past Three Days That Ive Looked Into The Natural Ways Of Starting It =)

im 37 wks and 2cm dilated iwant sum advice on how to bring on contractions more any help would be grate ?..x

hi im 38 and a cuple days weks and am in the same situation id love my baby in my arms bt when i went on that bounty site n tried to ask for help she amde me feel like i was doin rong im glad im nt the only 1 who wants to try this!! how do u no if ur dilated r enfaced is that the word… its my first baby n im the ungest in r family 20 so my family dnt no or cnt remember what happens!

has any1 tried accupressure!! i dnt tink im goin to spend mre money on mre stuf to start me bt if any1 has bought the book n wud b able to tell me wat to do n the six various pressure points plz let me no because wat didnt wrk for sum mite wrk for others!!!

Hello all i am 36 weeks and 5 days, i have had the pregnacy from hell, kedny stones morning sickness the whole time, blood suger yuckness…. about 3 weeks ago i got really sun burned and lost my mucus plug and was haveing contractions at 32 weeks freeked me out. but now i have been haveing lots of painful braxton hick, i havent been sleeping well, and the baby is pushing down on my cervex with is little head, this is my second child and i dont remember it being this painful, is this normal? is anyone ealse feeling this way?

I agree about the girl who wants to bring on early labor. Small frame or not, leave that baby IN THERE!! I had a girlfriend in high school who had her 1st the summer just after graduation. She was a small frame person, under 5 feet tall and she carried to term and had a healthy 8 lb baby!
And to add to the other comments I personally have had 2 preemies. I have a daughter who was born @ 24 weeks, and my 2nd daughter born @ 32 weeks with meningitis. Both required long stays @ NICU- and a lot of tears went into it. It’s not cute, funny, or easy to deal with. It sounds like you might need bed rest if you’re really miserable but don’t try to induce labor @ 27 weeks!! That is so obsurd! You’re only looking at a partial chance your child will even make it!!

Ladies here: I am now on my 3rd pregnancy and this time I have gone to term…:D YAY!! But I am in the “sick of being pregnant club” I would really like to know what you think works best. I am apprehensive about castor oil, I have a feeling it’s just going to make me go #2 and that’s it. As for the pizza, I doubt it, I’ve eaten pizza, no labor. I actually eat a lot of spicy stuff, and NO LABOR….I am just ready to stop being so huge and sluggish as I have 2 little girls who need mommy 2 be at my best! If castor oil works, wouldn’t a standard laxative, without tasting as horrible??

Well best of luck to everyone….

I see I haven’t gotten any responses yet and I’ve read and read what happens with each person’s attempt at each method. So I’ve decided to try one of my own. Most of what I’ve read that’s “natural” involves herbal supplements. So I am taking a very complete diet supplement that’s full of different herbals, 3x’s a day. I will post again if this works. Just took my 1st packet 1 hour ago so no result yet

Im currently 34 weeks pregnant and will ne 35 weeks preggo on Monday 08-03-09. Im seriously in the Sick of being preggo group. The doctor has said her head is already dropped and that she is going to be very long. Her kicks in my ribs are so painful. I have already started having braxton hicks and feeling lots of pressure. This will be my second baby. Do think its too early to drink castor oil and really get things going.

Also the girl who is 27 weeks preggo is crazy for wanting her out so soon. Girl relax try not to think about the time and before you know it you’ll be at 34 weeks. At least that a be much closer to full term of 37 weeks.

You may want to consult with your doctor before taking all those herbs. There are many that can harm your baby in many ways including meconium in the amniotic sac from a bowel movement too early.

i am 35 weeks and at 1 and 50% baby number 5 Dr told me no sex for a week and to take it easy for a week. The dr also said that if i went into labor before 37 weeks that they would try and stop it. I am trying so hard to not go crazy and do what the dr said! As soon as im 37 weeks its on SEX,sex,and more sex my poor man wont be able to keep up, then if all else fails i will do the pineapple evening primrose oil, i heard that you can start the oil as soon as 34 weeks to get your cervix ready, on any of the ideas we so search out we should all rember to ask are dr or midwife first!!!! As for the going crazy part and stressing out over when its going to happen we all need to take a breath (myself included) And try to relax (soooo not EAsy)Pretty soon we all will have are hands full with a new baby and family,house work the list gose on and on, so we all need to enjoy what little painful time we have left to spend with our husbands other children, friends crazy mother in laws and first time and pro grandmas to be. Just sitting here thinking about wanting my new baby out makes me think of all the stuff i have to do around the house DEEP CLEANing Getting stuff more ready, then i relize that mabe im not as ready as i thought???? hahahahahaha AS for the lady who wanted to do this a 27 weeks what all the women are telling you about waiting in a kind and loveing manior they are the ones you should talk to as for the cold heartedness some of the others have shown just blow them off and go out and get your nails done baby and do some majior shopping for you and the baba. Peace to all and happy times

ALL WE NEED IS LOVE!!!! hahahahahaha

Wow. I think I should send all of you to my doctor! I’m at 41 weeks and want labor to happen naturally, but my doctor is all for inducing me. I’ve dialated 1cm each week for the past 3 weeks and am 50% effaced. After he made my induction appointment (which I told him I would not go to), I tried accupressure, as well as labor inducing massage. It felt great, but the baby is still content inside. Unlike many who have posted on here, I’m fortunate enough to have had a pleasant and pretty painless pregnancy. I’m very into natural medicine and have been taking primrose oil since 36 weeks. However, I strongly believe the baby will come out when the baby is ready. Since I didn’t see it on here, I thought I’d add a few other recommendations I’ve heard: My doula recommended Nighty Night Tea (from Traditional Medicinals) each evening half an hour before bedtime after 38 weeks. Also, instead of just straight castor oil, she recommends 4 ounces of fresh orange juice mixed with 2 ounces of castor oil once an hour for 3 hours. Labor supposedly will begin 3 to 8 hours after the last dosage. I was a nanny for many years and know the baby is easier to take care of inside my belly than outside, so I’m not in any hurry! Good luck to all of you, but as my mother’s doctor said, “Maybe the baby needs the time to develop something we can’t see or understand.” (My mother carried my brother for 11 months and he was perfectly healthy.)

Rebecca…..There is a reason for modErn medicine. I understand wanting to have your baby naturally. After 42 weeks there are risks to carrying too long. Like too little amniotic fuid or lack of oxygen in the fluid; that can kill your child. There is a greater risk of your baby having a bowel movement in the womb and of still birth. There are other risks too… including to your health. I would take your doctor’s advice. They didn’t know then what we know now. I know you want to have your baby naturally but is it worth his/her health to be that selfish?

Hi i have 5 days left of my pregnancy but the pain is reaching unbearable levels. is there a way i could induce my labor without harming my baby.

I tried an herbal supplement for a couple of days, it did NOT work. Then I did try castor oil yesterday evening and I never even got the need to go to the ladies room until 4:30AM at which time I only had very very loose stools, no cramping in my abdomen anywhere.

I have done acupuncture, TWICE, for labor induction, with no real result. I had contractions while on the table with the treatment going on (the needles in the “points”) and then I left and NOTHING-

I also have a hispanic friend, and her mom made me a special herbal tea that was supposed to work, and NOTHING again, not to mention it tasted SOOOO NASTY.

I have also been taking Evening Primrose Oil for over a week, both orally and applying oil vaginally- and yesterday @ the doctor he said my cervix was still completely posterior 0 effaced 0 dialated.

Spicy foods have also NOT worked for me.
Sex has not worked for me.
Car rides/bumpy roads, NOT worked either.
I’ve bought a large exercise ball and bounced on it (read that somewhere) and it did NOT work.

I don’t mean to rain on anyone’s parades but I have to agree with comments about waiting until baby is ready!!

I’ve been told if I don’t dialate by my next appointment he wants to schedule me for a c-section.

If anyone has any suggestions that I have NOT tried, PLEASE leave a post!!! I really really don’t want a c-section!!
THANKS

Joy

i am 37 weeks prego with my 4th child and the doctor just checked me today and i am 2cm. i have been reading everything you ladies have written and it has helped i am leaving to go to the store right now to get castor oil,raspberry leaf tea,pineapple,and pizza something has to work to get this baby out. i can’t take the pain anymore so wish me luck.

I am 35.5 weeks prego with my third child. Had to be induced with first two at 41 weeks both times. The third time around i have gotten gestational diabetes. the doc says my baby is larger than norm for his age due to diabetes and wants to induce at 37 weeks. He also told me that it would be safe for me to try some natural ways to induce beings im so not wanting to get pitocin again. He said to use nipple stimulation because it is the safest and most effective. He says it makes your breast produce ocytocin which is natural form of pitocin. He said to take my breast pump and place it on side and sit for 30 min. or until contractions start. He said to make sure after contraction starts to stop pumping so i do not overdue my uterus. then when contractions stops to wait 10 min. and repeat on other side. again till contaction starts again. He said to repeat this until contractions are 5 min apart or 60-90 seconds long. My doc said that they use this technique in the hospital to get things going for many women who does not want to you medicine to induce. He also claims it to have a very high sucess rate and to be the safest form of induction due to it useing your bodys natural hormones to get the job done. I will start this tonight and see how it works for me. good luck to anyone who tries. i will let you know how it worked for me tomorrow.

And to crystal the girl wanting to induce at 27 weeks. PLEASE be patient. If my doctor thought it was safe for me to cary to 40 weeks i definetley would do so. Your little one has no chance to make his own decisions right now and you making that one for him is so selfish of you. Just ask yourself on question, how would you feel if it didnt work out for the best. would you be able to cope with that.

If anyone has had sucess with the nipple stimulation please let me know and please let me know the procedure that you used. my doc says different docs and midwives have different ways of using nipple stimulation so im curious what has worked for others as far as this method goes. God bless!!!

I am going for the breast stimulation method today. I purchased a very cheap manual pump, wooo, how fun but I’m willing to try it. Will post results later, unless I end up @ the hospital!! :D

I am two days away from my due date. I have been having cramps that vary from not painful to unbearable. I have been trying to induce for the last 3 days. Does anyone have any tips?

I have tried almost all of these things…..none work. I did castor oil, gave me diarrhea. I tried primrose vaginally which did get me to efface but no further than that. I craved pineapple all throughout my pregnancies so I know that’s a myth. Raspberry tea did nothing. And pizza was just a way to get heartburn. Anybody know of anything new?

Hi, I’m 38weeks an my doctrtold me the same way got the baby in get the baby out sex, the semen soften up the cervix,,she also told me beast stimulation tht includes using a breast pump every 10 min for 30 min and you should contract, let your partner suck on them, a statinarybike, I just turned 38 week so in three days I will try and ley yall know did it work

im due today but there is still no signs of the wee man making an appearance.it getting way 2 painful and i have no idea what to do to help him along. Please hep me some1 xx

I am 39 weeks today and have tried sex, walks, baths, pineapple, squatting, ect. My babygirl is moving more than ever. I believe shes working her way into position. Ive had no labor pains and a very easy pregnancy. I believe shes ready due to extreme pressure on my lower abdomen n sore hips. How can i encourage her to get the show on the road?

Well I am 33 weeks, and NOT looking to induce labor just yet. My little one has to stay in just a while longer. But I do have a question, if anyone can help…like I said I am 33 weeks, but I got checked and my Dr. said I am already 2 cm dilated and have a very very soft cervix…Is there any way I can prevent going into labor this early? Any advice?
Also to moms wanting to be done, this is my second child, with my first child I reached 38 weeks and then was really craving milk. I for some reason decided to warm up the milk and add cinnamon. It tasted kind of gross, and didnt make me feel very well, so i went to lay down after drinking a glass. I woke up 2 hours later and low and behold was in labor. I went in to get checked at the hospital and they gave me a pain shot for contractions and told me they would see me in the morning! And they did, and I had my baby boy later on that day. I hope this may help some of you, but I dont suggest ANY self-inducing tips unless you are at least 37-38 weeks if you cant wait until 40.

Shame On You Krystal! I Am 27 Weeks With My 2nd And As Miserable As I Am I Would Never Do Something So Selfish. You Shouldnt Even Be Allowed To Take That Baby Home With You. There Are Plenty Of Good People Out There Who Are Praying To Be Pregnant! Do That Poor Kid A Favor! If I Knew Where U Lived I Would Call Childrens Services In A Heartbeat. Your Baby Is In My Prayers…

Jessica & the warm milk with cinnamon! I have a friend whose family is all from Puerto Rico, and her mom tried to help me induce with a concoction “tea” that was made of boiled raw ginger root, strain the ginger, use the water it was boiled in, and add evaporated milk. I was told I had to drink it hot, and it didn’t work but that’s interesting to hear about your cinnamon milk!!

I am like others I’ve tried it ALL. Castor oil, bouncing on a ball (squatting), bumpy car rides, swinging on playground swings, teas, herbals, Evening primrose oil (both orally and vaginallY), sex, sex, sex, warm baths, walking, stairs, you name it. I even had ACUPUNCTURE (for induction) TWICE!!

I think when baby is ready is when baby will come. I have begun to wonder if everything that did work for people is coincidence??

And to Jessica again, to PREVENT labor? You want to relax, take it easy, rest, avoid sex, avoid straining yourself! I’m the opposite of everyone. I’ve had preemies in my 2 prior pregnancies, I have had a 24 weeker, and a 32 weeker!! (They’re 3 and 2 now)

Sometimes, and not to make you worry, just being realistic, the baby is going to come out whenever baby wants to come out!!! I’ve been going to a high risk specialist this time and I met a lady who did begin to dialate in her early 30’s of week numbers (31 or 32) and last I saw her she was 37 weeks! I know that’s so controversial but I hope you know sometimes there’s nothing that can prevent it- even my Perinatologist himself told me that sometimes despite all the best medical intervention, baby will come when baby comes!

Good Luck Jessica!! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers-

Now does anyone else have any inventive ideas? I’m so ready for baby- this is the very first time I’ve made it full term, which is a good thing but very trying on my patience and if I don’t find a way to dialate on my own I might be facing a CESARIAN and I DON’T WANT IT!!!!

I’ve been doing the breast stim but it’s not leading to anything!! AAAHh

Suggestions ladies? Everything welcome and the more specific the better!!

Got checked last night I am 1cm dialated and 70% effaced. Hopefully that’s good, I see it as a start!

hey im 35 weeks… my doctor hasnt check me in bout a month but when he did i wasnt dilated and he said my cervix was fully closed. i want her out so bad!!!! im going to try all the ideas i’ve read….an how do you do the breasat stimulation an do you need a breast pump?!

Hi im nearly 38 weeks and im so ready for this baby to arrive! Its nice to know we’re all feeling the same… I’ve tried everything over the last few days. No movement yet, hopefully the pinapple im about to eat will get things going eh!

hey all~
I’ve read all comments and well I have had 3 baby’s on # 4. My first baby boy at 24 week’s popped out on the toilet at the hospital right leg and cord in the toilet. I was really scared he was 1 lb 8 1/2 oz. And 12 inchs long. It’s a bad thing had to be in the hospital for 9 month’s of his life. Do not wish it on anyone it’s no fun he is now almost 8 yrs old smart as ever doing good. even tho has some problem’s now still. My 2nd one was girl 40 weeks and 2 day’s had went into laybor by my self the morning was suppose to be indused but they had to break my water with her. 7 lbs 8 oz 20 inchs long.
3rd one 36 weeks went had sex next day into labor cuz of spoting bleeding and they had to induced me also had to break my water. also cuz he was in disstress almost had to do i c-sec but ending up doing vag and was fine. He was 5 lbs 9 oz 19 inchs long.
And now 4th one bed rest at 27 to 28 weeks had to stop labor 2 times.Also had shots for lungs also have a ingwanull hernia but at 35 week’s now at 4cm and in really bad pain ya’ll don’t even know. NEED TO HAVE THIS BABY NOW. Hurts so bad when walk ect nothing is working for me. HELP THANKS!!!

I also heard a fine tooth comb work’s put one in each hand base in hand with teeth facing up by tip of finger’s were nails are and squeese for 30 to 60 sec turn them around and do it in pulm of hand’s after that. Then bout 3 to 5 hrs later should feel contraction’s and water might break. maybe try taking a nap after doing it too.

Me it didn’t work.
But maybe for some others it just might little tip for all who need idea’s.

Thanks everyone, I still haven’t made labor:( I’m finally dialated to a whopping 1CM and 70% effaced which means I’m eligible for induction/VBAC as scheduled (and desired) but they won’t even give me an appointment yet!! Like WOW! I’ve gone one extreme to the other- preemies to ??? I feel so impatient and no “kooky” ideas have worked which is so depressing and frustrating! I am feeling so much pressure, but no cramps, no contractions, no fluid leaking, seen no plug come out, NOTHING !!:( I am glad the odd stuff works for some people but NOTHING has worked for me if you read my one post above- NOTHING. I just have to wait I guess. Haven’t done the breast pump in like a week, maybe now I know I’m dialated I’ll give it a whirl ;)

Open to any other new ideas though!

Hey all, been trying breast pump and castor oil for a week,, nothing and nothing except the runs,, lol. sorry for tmi. I am now almost 3 centimeters dialated though and 50% efaced. been taking borage oil,, same as evening primrose, but three times the gla. which is what i believe has taken me from unripe cervix to 50 in 6 days. thats what its used for so i can vouch for that. It works and its cheaper than epo. a mid wife told me about it. It is almost exactly the same thing as epo. it comes from a borage flower and it is oil capsules just the same as epo. it can be taken 3 500mg capsules a day and 1-2 inserted vaginally at bed time. i tear them open and rub oil as close to cervix as possible. This stuff only cost me 3.48 a bottle of 50. i bought two bottles and have only used not even half of the first one and its working so fastly i dont think i will make it to second bottle. got it at wall-mart in the vitamin section. She says doctors reccomend epo over borage oil due to it being three times stronger than epo. it works really fast and i guess it would be all pregnant women inducing at any age of gestation desired because it thins so cervix dramatically. i will be pumping again tonight and with as far as i have progressed i might have some luck. will let you know. Will never do the castor again. i have done it three times this week and my god its awfull talk about stomach cramps and the poops, lol,, and no contractions, zilch….. forget that. good luck to all and please if you use the borage oil in place of the epo please only use if you are far enough along not to have baby to soon. info was for women in my boat bably needing to induce and far enough to do it safley. the recomend using epo after 36 weeks. i would not recomend using borage until 37 unless medically needed to induce. It really works that good and that fast. please for ppl like crytal on here trying to induce at 28 wks. do not even consider this. that is crazy and heartless. the reason most home remmedies do not work is because our female parts down there arent quite all the way ready yet. This will get you there and fast and you may end up doing something you really regret. exspecially if you do this so early in preg. and harm your child due to pre-term delivery.

And i am so sorry for all the miss-spellings, lol,, was typing so fast and clicked submit before i read through it. hope you can make it out.

Thanks Brandi- I’ll run out and get Borage Oil today…I’ve been doing EPO and I’m thinking it might have helped, of course I’ve tried so many different things I really am unsure what’s worked, but I can vouch on the castor oil not working for me either….I didn’t even get much pooping out of it (TMI sorry)

lol,, i wish i didnt get much pooping. lol,, thats all i got. some women swear by the castor oil but i guess its not for all of us. I took a long walk this morning. about 2 miles so hopefully with the borage oil working so well and the pumping im about to try again, maybe i can get somewhere. Let me know joy if you find anything else that helps you along. would greatly appreciate the info. will do the same.

Benny…

Was looking for some info and found this.. Can’t agree with some things you said though. Sunday…

Okay Brandi- Here is where I am. Yesterday I purchased Black Cohosh. After reading, I have learned that the BLUE Cohosh has been blamed for any potential bad effects with the unborn. I didn’t buy the Borage Oil because I’ve felt bad about the lack of progress with EPO. Tonight I have been reading more about the Black Cohosh and I found an herbalist site that said Borage Oil is a very strong uterine contraction med-

Brandi, are you having contractions with the Borage???

Anyhow I bought the BLACK Cohosh (@ WalMart) and I have been taking a variety of doses of it because I can’t find accurate info online, other than it is used FREQUENTLY by herbal people and midwives for INDUCING!! That in HIGH and LARGE doses it works? I started it yesterday, then had pain in the evening, which kind of died out, but took 2 more capsules this morning and ended up @ Labor N Delivery- they said I was having contractions every 8-10 minutes and they were lasting for 1-2 minutes!! That’s great except they kept me there on the fetal monitors for 2 hours then re-checked and my cervix has stayed @ 1cm Dialation- so they sent me home. :( What I have read about BLACK cohosh is that if you discontinue it the effects do wear off- so I think it might fall into the category where ya gotta wait for baby 2 be ready….IDK it seems to bring on the contractions

I read ONE testimonial of a woman who used the Black Cohosh and it caused contractions strong enough that her water broke, which IDK if you know but that’s a surefire delivery because if your water goes then the baby HAS to come out….risks of infection.

Anyhow I shall continue to research and experiment here within reason, I am kind of getting more agitated trying so hard and getting NOWHERE!!!

Keep me posted on your borage thing and tell me if it’s making you contract or noT!!!

Hey joy, with the borage i will no more on wednesday when i go to the doctor. I have not had any contractions with it but it has worked well with the cervix ripening though. i went from unripe and barely on centimeter to 50 efaced and about 3 cm in one week. Im hoping for more results like this on wednesday. I mad at my self though after reading your post because i was at wall mart today and picked up the black cohosh and put it back because i was scared of what it might due to baby. but now finding out that it caused you contractions has me a lil frustrated with my self. i may go back and get it tonight. the pumping has not worked for me yet and i pump every single night. not for three hours like some say but until i cant stand it any longer. talk about sore, lol. plus with the black cohosh, what have you heard the dosage is to take. the ones i found were pill form in the vitamin section.

i justtt turned 38 weeks t0day nd i am in s0 much pain its unbareable.i can hardly walk my feet are so swollen and my bacck just hurts so bad any tips f0r a first time mom will help ; that pizza thinq didnt w0rkkk n0r did the pinapple ; n0r the ice cream HEEEELLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!

OK… Where to start. There are 82 responses to this post and so far only one of you seems to have grasped that this is a semi-scam site intended to get you to purchase a grossly overpriced PDF with information that could be found on google for free. Luckily none of you seems to have been interested in the information so no harm no foul I guess. A special thank you to Brandi and Joy, who have single handedly kept this blog alive. This site will eventually be taken down for non-payment of hosting fees. But your saga will live on waybackmachine.com forever. I really do feel for all of you that are waiting for your baby to arrive…except for Chrystal. She’s just nuts.

Dear Joy. Have not heard from you in a couple days. Hopefully your little one has made his/her grand arrival. I wish the best for the both of you. If i am wrong, hang in there girl. we will be there soon.

So, I went and got the black cohosh yesterday. took took capsules. got some stomach cramps and pain about an hour and a half later, no contractions though. Im not sure how much to take or how often though, and dont want to harm my little blessing. So im asking for advice from any one on here that has experience with the black cohosh, in case our friend joy is tied up being a new mommy. will try again today and see what happens as well.

TO ARIEL:

I seen your posting about being 38 weeks and in horrible pain and swollen ankels. First of all, congradulations on being a first time mommy. It is such a wonderfull thing,, despite all the pain and blahs that come with it, you will forget about all that the second your little one shows his/her face. But i can give you the best advice i can give you coming from a mother of soon to be three. But keep in mind ariel, every womans body is different and some things that work for one may not work for another, but with hope and patience you will be ok.

For the swollen ankels, when i get swollen ankels it does me wonders to get off my feet for a little bit. Cut back on salt intake for a couple days and see if that doesnt help. also as wierd as it sounds i would soak my feet and ankels in a big bowl of cold water for aboout 15 min or so and then prop them up on the arm of the couch when i was done and that gave me the best results. thankfully with baby number three my ankels only swell on occasion and hasent caused me to much pain or problems. baby # one was the worst on ankels for me.

For the back pain, i have to be honest sweety, The only advice i can give you is NOTHING, lol. I have been through three pregnacies now and yet to find a cure for back pain. back pain has been the worst for me, in all three. Gets so bad, it sends pains down my legs and man does it hurt. I began to believe that the back pain just comes with the bundle. lol. Sometimes a warm bath or shower can help for a little bit but it always comes back.

As far as the home remedies to start labor. I have tried many things from foods to herbs to nipple stimulation, to castor oil, and walking and climbing up and down stairs. Nothing has worked yet, lol. Joy, which also posts on here has tried alot as well, she has some posts above also that you might find helpfull. I personally do not believe that foods really help, i believe foods such as pineapple helps with softening the cervix but not to start labor. i personally feel that nipple stimulation is the best bet because it was refered by midwive to me. Any many many many woman have success with this. IT really does start contractions if you can bear doing it long enough. you can read my posts above about how i was told to do it. also borage oil has worked great for me, also in my post above. we will find out today what the doctor says on my progress. I will continue to keep expereminting on bringing on my labor and if i find something that works i will be sure to pass on the info. Good luck ariel, and to everyone on the post. BY the way , i love the name Ariel. My daughter, baby number 1, i named her Aeriyal. lol.

Hope to hear from you soon Joy. Let us know how its going for you.

as for the lady thats 27weeks hang in there, i kinda know how u feel this ix my fourth preg, and ive had so many complications with this one ive been in the hospital five times and hade two ct scans this last time the found a lump on my lungs im so scared i dont drink or smoke i just want the baby out so i can find out about the health problems im havin,but i also want to give my baby a fighting chance and wait untile 35 weeks i had pain and discomfort an he kicks like hell ,i cant sleep and im on bedrest,i live in some appartments and have to walk up 34 steps to get to my appartment it hurts,i can tell all the ladies the sex worked for me my last to pregnancy u have to be dilated first for the semen to get through ,im only 29weeks right now still waiting on my day.

Well, the only thing that worked for me with my last pregnancy was primrose oil vaginally.
It got me to efface pretty quickly…over a few days. Doc said my cervix was going nowhere. I went home did the primrose and at my next visit said it was completely effaced. Even he was shocked. It didn’t,however do anything for dialation. I had to be induced anyway. I have had to be induced with all three of my other kids and would love to have just ONE natural labor and delivery. My body just doesn’t start labor on it’s own. If it does, it fades very quickly and I have to be “helped” along. Induction sucks! Hooked up to machine the whole time, contractions are worse because of the pitocin, I hate it. Would love to get things going myself.

hi im 33wks preg this is my sec preg had twin girls at 32wks thankfully they were perfect only stayed in hosp 3wks,
nw im 33wks preg i cant wait til labour as i am SPD suffer,im in alot of pain every nite cant hardly sleep,cant move without screaming out,im only carryin a single child this time but i ad a easier preg with the twins who r nw 15mths old.i knw its early but i just want my baby boy out nw looking for ways to self induce but not sure whats best,cant eat spicy food as i get really bad heartburn all time.can ne1 please give me some advise,thanks

hey im 37 weeks… i jus bought the borage oil if anyone knows how to use it an is it safe?!!! please let me know!

hey michelle, i used borage oil and blue cohosh. i delivered on the 29th at 37.3 weeks with a beautifull little boy. 6.9 pounds and 20 in long. absulutley perfect health. went from 1 cm and zero efaced to 3 cm and 50 efaced with the borage oil in less than a week. took three 500 mg capsules a day and two inserted vaginally nightly like told by mid wife, and started blue cohosh tinture on 27th. took it for 8 hours for two days. took 15-20 drops of tinture in about 2ounces of warm water every hour and ate small meals. on day two with the cohosh went into labor. i had tried everything else in the book, litterally. and nothing worked but this worked like a charm. blue cohosh wont work until cervix is soft and somewhat dialated but the borage oil has three times the gla in it than epo oil and it was wonderfull. people say that blue cohosh is bad for baby but according to my midwife it is black cohosh that is bad because it cause you to bleed bad during labor. she assured me ppl have used blue cohosh for many of years and no probs and i also asked girl at vitamin store and she agreed that she sells it with great sucess. my baby and me was so healthy for labor and let me tell you, my cervix was so soft cause of the borage oil and cohosh mixture that i only pushed three times. and didnt even get cut, only got two stiches down there. was miraculas. sorry for the spelling. just got home today. my mind still in new baby world. lol,, good luck and hope that helped you.

ok thnaks im goin to start tryin the after tom. i go to the doctor!!!when i put them in me do i cut them or leave them whole?

Well, after reading this, I think I’m going to throw out my EPO and get the borage oil. I was looking at it at Wally World, but I decided to go with EPO because it was more commonly used. I’ve only used it twice, and the midwife didn’t say anything about me being effaced since my last visit from last week. I’ve heard of the blue and black cohosh, but I thought they were both harmful, so I didnt go for either one of them.
Btw, I’m 37 weeks & will be 38 on Monday. I’m trying to self-induce because my husband is going overseas in the beginning of October, and I want him to be able to spend as much time with the baby as possible. I’m not due until the 22nd, but that doesn’t give a lot of time for me to be late or him to be able to spend time with our first child before he goes. The midwife at my practice said that she won’t induce until 41 weeks, but the doctor there told me he won’t let me go past my due date. They know it’s accurate because I had an ultrasound to determine my due date. So, when my hubby gets home tonight, I’m going to snag the car to grab borage oil and blue cohosh. I’ll keep you updated!

Hey brit, blue cohosh didnt harm my baby at all. in fact he is perfectly healthy and so beautifull. i was in labor for a long time but thats because my contractions werent very strong but once i could start pushing, three big pushes and my little caprice was born. i hope you have success with inducing. The borage oil works great also, tore them open and squeezed oil on clean fingers and inserted oil as close to cervix as possible. did it every night and took one borage orally three times a day. morning, noon and night. and i feel i finally found something that works.

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Thanks, Brandi! I wasn’t able to get to the store last night, but if I don’t go tonight, I’ll definitely be there tomorrow. After I did more reading, I saw that they were saying that blue & black cohosh were dangerous in EARLY pregnancy since they were connecting it to miscarriages. So, I’ll be trying it.

I am 34 weeks along with my second child. with my first one my water broke on its own at 33 1/2 weeks then i delivered 9 days later to a healthy baby boy. So going a tad early before really has me itching to go SOON. i feel huge!

I have 3 kids and preggo with #4. I am 37 weeks and 2 days. SO so ready for him to come out. He is getting too big. I gained 4 pounds in one week then gained 2 more pounds in 5 days. I have tried walking,castrol oil,sex(lots), just got done eating pizza so we will see if that works. I have a fresh pineapple i’m gonna have my husband cut up for me.thought about trying the borage oil.

omg today is my due date ; and instead of me havinqqq my s0n this qirl wh0 i have been talkin to on the computer justtt had her s0n [ she was due yesterday ] ; so i have offically tried EVERYTHING from food-herd-oils NOTHING has worked ahh im q0in crazyyy w0rds can not explain how uncomfortable i am ; nd i justtt wanna mmet him , look into his lil eyes nd tell him that i love him nd that he is my reason for livin nd doin everythinq i have done from just makinq skool nd doin the right thinq ;he is so amazinq ; its un_real tht you can carry your hole world in your belly [ thank you brandi ]

I am 38 weeks pregnant today and I have had a horrible pregnancy starting with the morning sickness, gall bladder surgery and scaitic nerve and that is all just the start… I went in to preterm labor and my cervix was dialated to 3, they gave me medicine to stop the contractions and now my cervix is being about a pain in the ass and it wont re open. I also have tried everything short of sex to induce my labor. The problem I am having is that my fiance gets off to quickly… like 3 minutes tops because since I have been super pregnant we havent had sex… I know that you have to have an orgasim and the sperm to help dialate the cervix so I am just struggling because I want so bad to have this baby and my significant other is having issues lasting… lol any ideas???

hi, i am 37.5 weeks, on sat i started raspberry leaf tablets and yesterday started prim rose, today will start vaginal. hope it works!! this is my second baby, for my first i tried caster oil and so did my friend who was due the same day, she started contracting the next day, but not me, it just made me sic!! i tried walking, and i mean i went for hours, 1 week over due and i couldnt handle any more they induced me, first jell on my cervix- 7.30 am, then they broke my waters- 12pm had eppidural at 6 pm they put me on the drip at about 10.30 pm and had to keep turning it up. 11.58pm he finaly came!!! got a little stuck on the way out, 9 1/2 pounds. oww glad this lil girls is smaller than her big bro. i am from australia so may be different, but dose any one know what the little white tab under your tounge is that brings you on is??

I am going to be 38 weeks on Sunday and am preggers with my 3rd. Pregnancy isn’t nice to me, as in Pre-eclampsia w/ my 1st and contractions for a week (5min apart) before they stripped my membranes and I went into true at 38.5 weeks.

I am insanely swollen, hands, feet and face, it feels like I am on fire. Doc says it’s just b/c I’m very pregnant and there may be entrapment somewhere… I don’t even know what that means. I want this baby out now! I have been having contractions 2-10 min apart since the 9th now.

I am going to get a big pizza and fresh pinapple and see what happens. Gosh I hope something works!! :-S

Good luck to all the other miserable mommies. I know it’s all worth it in the end, but it can be sooo difficult!

For the girl that wants to induce @ 27 weeks just pray to ur lord to give u the strength to go to term i know its hard being preg. but thats the price we pay for not strapping up for that moment of pleasure

hi im 34 weeks on tuesday and suffering with a bad water infection not looking to induce him just want him to be healthy and im a worrier as im now on antibiotics hoping this doesnt hurt him in any way. also in total shock reading about the girl wanting to induce at 27 weeks thats murder wasnt long ago that 28 weeks was the cut off for abbortions if you had a good reason. you need to put5 your unborn babbys needs before your own!

39 wks and 3 days preg, trying for any remedy to get this little sucker out!i’ve worked as a cna my entire 9 mths and still nothing first he didn’t turn so i was ready for a section now he turns two days before what the hell he’s giving me so much grief i can’t take it anymore! i don’t even get braxton hicks contractions gesh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

had him 9/21. self expressed some milk the previous day… had been having contractions 10 min apart for almost two weeks. it may be tmi but gave dh a bj and started to go into full force labor three hours later. :-D

omg arial! don’t write like that it is obnoxious to say the least and u sound retarded. also these things do work for some but only right around when the baby is due. i’m 41 weeks and I’m about to eat some pizza! just relax, have some sex, and play with your nipples, it releases the same kind of thing as pitocin because your body thinks it is nursing, but u have to do it for like a couple hours so be patient.

I am 34 weeks and 5 days as of today, and im having a c- section in about a week. I am also pregnant with twins, I think 37 weeks isn’t horrible at all to want to induce your labor, It’s perfectly healthy and the baby is fully developed by then, lungs and all. So to say to someone that they should have just have an abortion is just cruel. I think alot of you should think before you speek. If the doctor is wrong for inducing me at 34 weeks then i don’t want to be right! Have some respect people.

Oh and one more thing….I think people who drink a frickin motor oil, like Castol oil for instance is a healthy way to induce labor….Is retarted and immature! And pizza doesn’t work!

Ashley….first of all the ladies weren’t referring to someone who wanted to induce at 37 wks…it was Krystal who wanted to induce at 27 WKS. And, no that is not safe or healthy. Maybe you should read before you speak. Why are you even looking on here if you just want to disagree with everyone??

Hi,

I 39 weeks today….and definately waiting for this baby to come! Has anyone else had any luck with the borage oil? I am thinking about trying it…and which cohosh is the one that helps blue or black? please help!!

Hey brit,, brandi again,, came back today to check up on all my prego pin pals on here. finally had little one on august 29. it was the blue cohosh tinture, not tablets. that with the borage oil works wonders and i used the borage oil orally and inserted. busted them open and put oil on finger tips and put it as far in as i could and rubbed it around. unbelievable results. and a week later or so started the blue cohosh tinture, the black did nothing and the mid wife and doctor said black cohosh causes extra bleeding during delivery so i used blue tinture as they said and i used it two days in a row because the first day only had mild contractions. My very healthy baby boy is a month old today. so handsome. just let me know if your intrested in the blue tinture directions for use is safe as is borage oil and i promise it works,, coming from someone that tried everything from nipple stim to castor oil, walks and sex, pinaple and more. had mine 3 weeks early with the borage and blue tinture. doctor was going to induce due to gestational diabetes. good luck girl and to all who is still trying, your all in my prayers.

Well, I can tell you all one thing, cinnamon stick tea does NOT work! I came across a few sites that suggested it. It sounded like something different so I tried it…..with no results.

Not to sound as if I am crying wolf but castor oil did it for me!! I was already 1cm when I started it though and had been taking primrose oil for about a week. I am not going to swear by it because I have tried it in previous pregnancies wihtout success.

Hey guys, I am 38.5 weeks, first baby and am in the same boat. Just one thing, I still have and enjoy sex with my husband, I have no idea if it will help induce her or not but just in case anyone wants to give it a try, the only position that is actually comfortable and takes the weight off is on all fours…all other psoitions just makes me wanna be ill in some way. Just a tip in case you haven’t tried it yet, i still get maximum pleasure this way…still no baby though. GL to all. x

@Ashley
it’s castor oil and it is commonly used as a food additive. I don’t personally plan to use it but I had to correct your misstatement.

Hey all you mummies to be!
I am 38 weeks,and am so over this pregnancy!
13 years between babies and I had totally forgotten what “joys” the third trimester brings with it!I have been induced with both of my previous pregnancies and would like to have this one come of his own accord with a little gentle persuasion!So I am thinking that I should have sex with the pineapple!(Just joking girls!)Seriously I think I am going to try Evening Primrose oil and some Raspberry leaf tablets.I would love to test the pizza theory but I too have heartburn so bad I want to call the fire brigade!The blue cohosh sounds good too!Fingers crossed one of them works!Goodluck ladies.

For all those whom are trying natural induction methods such as hot curries and pizza’s which may bring you the dreaded heartburn try COLD CHOCOLATE MILK, works a treat at taking heartburn away and is yummy too :) lol

hi to all of you, i just want to start off by saying that when i first started to read this i was very angry at the girl who wanted to induce at 27 weeks but the more i read and thought about it i realized we are all in the same boat here I mean i am sure we have all thought about how we can start labor before lets say 35 weeks so who are we to judge her but i do think that she should wait till she is much further along, and i also noticed that joy has not been on here for a while which could only mean she has had her baby so congratulations to her and her family, also to Brandi I was just wondering what is the dose for the blue cohosh I am going to have my son in the next 2 weeks or so but they have to induce me and i have been throught that with my other two and i really would like to know what it is like to start labor on your own so if you are still n this site ever please let me know and thank you very much and to all of you other mommies to be i just want to tell you good luck i have tried EVERY thing that has been suggested on here and other sites so now i am going to try the borage oil and the blue cohosh i will let you all know how it works out thanks and good luck

I just wanted to stop by here again and let all of you know that i have been doing some research on the blue cohosh and i found that it is in fact very dangerous for your unborn child i found that the black cohosh is ok but there have been reports of the blue causeing birth defects in the child and there was a couple of instances where it actually caused the baby to have a heart attack and i know that may seem weird considering that an infant haveing a heart attack but it has been proven that the blue cohosh is the cause of alot of problems for you and your unborn child I just thought i would stop by here and let all you expecting moms who are trying to induce naturally just do some research before you take others advise because like alot have said what works for me may not work for you any way thank you for taking the time to read what i had to say and thank you to all the moms who had all the great ideas on ways to naturaly induce good luck to all

Ok, fisrt of all, I hear ya, you are all uncomfortable. But almoast NONE of you are 40 weeks! Play your violins for me when you cross over into the fourth trimester. This is my second pregnacy past forty weeks, so I mean absolutely no offense, but I just can’t feel sorry for ya til you join my club, lol!
Nevertheless, good luck to everyone, I am so done! Trying to VBAC and dreading another Csection. This doc will let me go to 43 wks with monitoring, and for those who mentioned the dangers of going past 4 weeks, they are all things that can be prevented with proper monitoring, so as long as the baby and placenta are doing ok, it is fine and safe to continue your pregnancy.

Hi there. I am 38 weeks along, 3cm dialated and 75% effaced and tired of being tired. Against my better judgement, and out of pure desparation, I broke down and took the castor oil. It was a horrible experience. I was a skeptic about the side effects because normally I have a high tolerance to medications. Listen ladies, I was nausious, vomiting, cramping and everything else. Besides it being hard to get down (it is really disgusting)…it is just not worth the consequences. Really. Trust me on this one. This is my third child, he can stay as long as he wants as long as I never have to go through that disgustingness again. lol. Good luck to you guys.

i am 37 weeks and huge i weighed 110 before i got preggo and now im at 145 i tried pumping but that didnt work and the spicy foods nothing…with my first daughter it all helped and she was delivered 2 weeks early healthy as can be…ill try the pinapple i want this baby out i cant sleep sit and walk i hurt everywhere i just want my baby girl out…any other ideas let me know!!

Hello to all i’m 12 days into trying to get my cervix to ripen..I started taking EPO 3 times a day and about 5 days ago i started taking the borage oil as well 3 times a day..Anyother ideas? Ob said on friday cervix is still closed but has soften just alittle…This is baby number 3 and both babys b4 had to be med induced with the cervical pill x2 and pitocin…First labor was 75 hours second one was 13 hoping to do things on my own this time…please help with ideas to ripen the cervix as i know that has to happen first

Well i am 39 weeks tomorrow…I have had such bad pains in my back my legs my feet ..severe headaches..everything is swollen…this is my first pregnancy and im soo scared!! I was checked last thursday and nothing! any suggestions??

hi i will be 36 weeks tomorrow and i went into premature labor a couple of weeks ago i am 4 cm dialated and 70percent thined out i am walking around and even having sex but nothing is making me have any more cervical change i will be full term tomarrow wat can help me

for u women thinking about castor oil don’t do it…i did it last night did 2 oz in oj at 5 pm and by 8 i was throwing up and #2 it was bad and the cramps were horriable and i’m still not feeling right today…i have been taking borage oil and EPO

anyone having any luck trying anything?

I’m 35 weeks is it too early to induce labor?

Yes, 35 weeks is too soon for you to induc unless medically necessary. I am 35 and 5 days and miserable… but your baby is only about 5 1/4 to 6 lbs and still has maturing to do! I know the feeling but just be patient sweety your almost to the end of the road even if it feels miles away.

I have tryed the blue cohosh as well and it didnt work for me…borage oil and epo inserted and taken orally have helped to rippen the cervix but thats it

I’m over pregnant at 40 wks 5 days. My OB won’t induce until 42 wks!!! There’s NO WAY! In my last pregnancy I did EVERYTHING sex, bumpy roads and Caster oil-the worst. I threw up and made a mess everywhere but NO labor. My sister tried it and thought it would be the death of her too. I am going to try the borage (oral and insert) for the next 4 days. Then do that and the blue cohosh for two days. I go for NST’s 3x’s a week. I did read up on the blue cohosh and they say it’s dangerous in EARLY pregnancy. I do believe babies come when THEY are ready but I’m going to give it a try. He/she has to be ready unless it has decided to attend pre-school in there! :) I will let you know if it works. To most, I’d say TRY to be patient and if your far enough along? Maybe we can help nature a little. Face it if nothing works, your bundle already has a mind of his/her own. Good luck to all of you and I will do my best to let you know if it works for me. God bless and happy holidays.

Help!!! Omg, I am 37 wks 2 days with my lil man, and I have NEVER felt like this with ANY of my pregnancys (this will be my 4th, finally a lil boy after 3 girls! Yay!) Anywayz…the pain in my hips, back and pelvis are sooo bad I can hardley walk anymore. I have been in tears just wanting him to come out! I have Gest. Diabetes so he is bigger then any of my girls. I was seriously contemplating tryin the castor oil tonight but I am extremely skeptical. My mom told me to do some jumping jacks, I told her at this point I dont think I could do a jumping jack, much less more!!! Any ideas ladies?? Help!!!

Jessika-it’s Jules, I’m just over 40 weeks pregnant. I am sorry to say I have found nothing to relieve the pain. Tyl does not help at all. My hips kill me. I think the relief is in delivery. Caster oil? I tried it last pregnancy it didn’t work and I was sick for about 12 hours. If you do it good luck, please get the reward of labor. Jumping jack? I’m with you, I’d be in the hospital from passing out not labor. I’m started borage oil pills yesterday. They smell BAD put no stomach upset so far :) I squeezed the two burst pills on my fingers and tried to get them as close to my cervix as possible and then put a pin prick in one and left it there. I can say, messy! My underwear had oil all over them this morning. If you do this, use a panty liner. It’s Wed. Dr Oz is have a pregnancy answer show today! Come Sunday I’m trying to add the black cohosh to the borage pills. I hope to goto the doctors Monday morning IN LABOR! I do have a NST today and Saturday I’m not sure how I’d feel taking this stuff without those? I will let everyone know if I go into labor or even if they say my cervix thins out! I hope you all feel better. Our little ones will be here soon. A bunch of Christmas presents. Good luck!

Thanks Jules…and good luck to you too!! So I went to get the castor oil at walgreens last night and the pharmasist (sp?) was in the isle i was in, he was nosey! Asked me if I was getting the oil for myself and strongly encouraged me to NOT DO IT!! He said he has had so many woman get seriously sick off of it and would not suggest anyone take it during pregnancy. Well, he scared me enough to not buy it, but I am still totally miserable!! I go see Dr. tomorrow and i am just goin to have to beg him to admit me and start inducing me. Does that seem selfish of me? Im 37 weeks 2 days so he is full term, I was dialated to 3.5 on Monday and 75% effaced, baby was at a +0 station. Please let me kno how it went with the Borage pills cuz thatll be my next step if he doesnt want to induce me!

Jessika,

Do you sound selfish? NO!! Your more than 37 weeks. With your cervix it sounds like your babies ready too. I was closed and high at 40 weeks 1 day. Mine is planning college from in me! I know you want the baby out, ESP. With the pain and holiday’s coming. Caster oil would be a hard way to go but with your body being ready it might work? You will more than likely throw up and spend HOURS in the bathroom. I don’t recommend you take borage pills as they ripen your cervix and that’s really it. Your already there. People will say “go for a long walk…” Let me be the first to say, wind chill below zero AND I’m in tons of PAIN! I can hardly get out of bed I’m so huge. They say black cohosh make you contract and blue cohosh make your contract more effective. I think that’s more what you’d need not borage. Walmart only sold black cohosh pills. Look it up on the Internet. The herbs have been used as long as they know to induce labor. There was a baby who had a heart issue about a hour after birth. Both the mom and the midwife claim it was NOT the cohosh. But you can NEVER know to much. It also says if you take Caster oil your child could have a BM before birth which is risky. Maybe we shouldn’t be pregnant during winter as we may slip and fall or have breathing issues from the cold? All I know is I’m 41 weeks and it’s time. If your sure your 37 weeks it might be your time. The one thing EVERYONE keeps telling me? Self induced labor usually doesn’t happen overnite. You rearly have sex once and go into labor, take Caster oil once and go into labor, ETC. It’s more of a week or so kind of thing. So be as patient as you can. If something doesn’t work once try again. I’m on day 3 of Borage and PRAYING my cervix thins. Cohosh won’t help if my body’s not ready. Try to be sure your ready :) I have the house clean, it’s decorated for the holiday’s. Christmas gift bought and wrapped. Over stocked on grocery and personal items. Bag’s packed. I am off work now and strain to think of what else I can do to be ready? I’m so far over due I’m over ready!!! My family gave me a housekeeper for 3months after the baby is born, I have bought CASES of soda and food. I have made a ton of food and goodies. This baby is going to come out and look at me like, “don’t you have something else to do?????” I’ll keep you informed. Let me know if you have the baby and what you did to help labor along? The only thing that keeps running through my mind is, ……they have to come out right?….. Smile and good luck one oven to another.

Ok, so I guess I was a lil anxious, but I went to Dr. today and my BP was insane! I am spilling protein in my urine so they diagnosed me with Pre-Eclampsia!! I already have the Gest Diabetes, so the Dr. said I need to go into the BirthPlace tomorrow to induce me and said I should have my baby sometime in the late afternoon/evening!!!! Omg…I dont have HALF the stuff done you have!!!! Im just super excited now and glad I didnt take the CO! Now Im a excited/nervous wreck to make sure I have everything done that I can possibly do tonight! I will update tomorrow (at sometime) and let you know how everything goes. Not really looking forward to the Pitocin again (had it with my 1st and 2nd) and it really made me feel icky, but Dr. said hopefully him breaking my water will get my contractions going enough to get everything goin! Wish me luck and I hope I can send good labor luck your way Jules!!!!!

Jessika-I’m sooooo happy for you!!! Congrats from the bottom of my heart, I will keep you in my prayers. I also went to L&D today. My hips are killing me and my groin was soooo sore. I thought, him maybe I’ll take some black cohosh pills and have cramping and the’ll induce? I’m 41 weeks!!! I got there, protien in my urine also. I took 1 cohosh pill every hour for four hours until I got to the hospital. NOTHING!!!! They checked me, I’ve thinned out a TAD! Hip pain, pelvic pain? I’m 41 weeks and the baby is getting big…..go home, take Tly and use lots of pillows! Really??? Have they went insane, cause I’m getting there. I didn’t know this doctor was a “non-induce” doctor until a month ago. He induces very few patients. He will induce me next Friday if no labor but I’ll be 42 and a half weeks. He feels 37-42 weeks is your due window and unless you go beyond that, to bad. I will keep up with the borage pills. They “might” have helped a little? I have a BAD feeling I am not going to dialate even under medical induction and need a c-section. Right now? As long as he/she is safely in my arms, i’d be happy!!! So smile I’ll be sending lots of prayers your way :) It’s going to be a long week but I’m almost there. Induction may not feel good but the CO was going to be bad too! I’m so excited for you. Don’t worry about having everything done! In a few months no one will remember if things were perfect, just how cute the baby was! I’m just bored, on maternity leave with to much time on my hands. How old ate your other kids? That matters too. My son is 18 YEARS old, not months, so no work there. He’s a little freaked to not be the only child and then I remind him, HE’S AN ADULT :) We’re all looking forward to this baby. Okay, off to the hospital for you. Bring home a keeper and I’ll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! Jules

Well, they have all given birth except me. Even all the crazy movie/TV people gave birth this week. I’m left holding down the pregnancy fort. I can’t WAIT for next weekend! I think the Borage pills are causing me to have heartburn so bad I’m on FIRE inside! I’ve been trying everything. My baby thinks it’s on a cruise….it’s 98.6• in there, relaxing, he/she is hang out in the warm water with a 24 hour buffet…..I wouldn’t come out either!!!!! I tried to send my little one a eviction notice, but obviously he/she CAN’T READ!!! I hope any new person who comes along has more luck inducing your labor than me.

I’m going too try epo tonight and acupressure, there the only two things i haven’t tried…Im only 39 weeks and been having really painful Braxton Hicks for the past week! its only 8 days till xmas!

My SON is here. I’m on my I-Phone and he’s right next to me! I had him at 9:15am he was 8LBS 2OZS. 20 1/4 inchs long-full head of blonde hair-he’s perfect!! I had hospital induction and 3 hours later HE WAS BORN! Yes, it HURT! I was 42 weeks pregnant. I tried EVERYTHING, except Caster Oil. Weeks of Borage pills, Black and blue cohosh pills, using a breast pump for 20 minutes at a time for 3 hours (this I do NOT EVER want to do again-OUCH) I ate two fresh WHOLE pineapple.My mouth still has sores. I tried to do accupressure not easy to do to yourself! I went to the mall and walked for two hours. My legs hurt so bad I left crying. I bounced up and down on my Bali ball. I ate a few spicy burettos and had heartburn to kill a horse. I even tried to strip my own membrains. NOTHING, NOTHING, NOTHING worked. My child was heading for preschool in there. I am hoping all the work I did trying to get him out made my labor so short? So anyone who is still pregnant, hold in there, I feel you. I wish you ALL the luck in nudging your little one out! If not, one look at your beautiful baby and you’ll know it was worth it. CONGRATULATIONS to everyone. Jules

PS

If ANYONE say (after your 37 weeks) wait, he/she will be here soon enough or any other TATIC to make you feel bad? At 37 weeks YOU ARE FULL TERM. By 42 weeks your crazy :) So unless they are currently more than 35 weeks pregnant themselves? IGNORE them. They have NO CLUE! I don’t care how many kids they had. It’s easy to remember the cute kicks, you forget the PAIN you were in. If someone who’s almost due says wait? Walk way! They must like being pregnant or having the rare “perfect” pregnancy and in a week will probably be reading this site themselves! You are the only one who knows how bad you feel!! God bless and chin up!

im 37 weeks 22 days away from being induced… but i swear with all the pain i’m having i just can’t go anymore i can’t get out of ved without nearly crying… i can’t move legs or anything down there because it seriously feels like i broke my pelvic bone… so today i had just about all i could take of this pain and i’m trying to induce… i ate hot sauce on a tostito chips lol, took a bath, and tried my breast pump out… also walked two days in a row friday and saturday… pain down stairs has been around since 24 weeks but off and on and now it is worse then ever brings tears to my eyes, ache to my back + odd pain to certain parts of my legs… i am 3 cm dialated 75% effaced as of tuesday almost 6 days ago

p.s. sex is out the window he is in iraq :’(

I’m 39 weeks pregnant and i eat pizza hit meat lovers pizza about once a week…. and i’m STILL pregnant. In fact I’m not even dilated!!! I walk every day, and my husband and i have been doing it like crazy!!! nothing works. They come when they want to… or when the doctor breaks your water and hooks you up to some pitocin. I’m so miserable!!

i am 33 weeks……close,but not close enough i am having pain out this world….cant breathe…..don’t let me get a cold that’s hell i am just ready for my son to be born…this is my first and last child…….I’ve had a horrible pregnancy ever i love my son so much…….its just overwhelming and is just ready for the constant aches of being pregnant to be over….i have been by myself this whole pregnancy…the father of my child wants no take in this till he’s born ……he doesn’t believe he’s mine…..i had sex with him round may 18-25….found out i was pregnant in June …the doctor said i was a month and almost 2 weeks …i don’t get his doubts their unrealistic to me…..im 17 years old i know I’ve made mistakes in my past but im young…….what do you guys think

Jennifer-you’ll be okay. Just don’t get to involved with your ex/the babies father. I had my son at 18. I married his father and it was a LONG TEN YEAR MARRIAGE. You think a baby would bring you closer? It doesn’t! He can either be a “part time” dad or let him go. Please if he doesn’t support you at one of the toughest times of your life? His child or not? He could still be there for you, he WILL NEVER BE THERE FOR YOU. I promise you WILL find someone who loves you and your SON more than that piece of work. I just had my second baby in my late thirty’s. Pregnancy is a long road, I went 42 WEEKS. I’d say about 32 weeks I was ready for it to be over. Just hang on, one day at a time, NOT one week. One week can feel like a lifetime when your pregnant. In ONE month you can start working on getting your little guy out :) I hope it works for you. Try taking Borage Pills (tell your doctor though) about 36 weeks. They were $4 at Walmart. Read up a lot on labor and delivery (there are things people forget or DON’T tell you!!) Last, the baby is awesome and so much more work than we ever dream. With my first son all I got was advice, hearing I was a baby having a baby etc. This child all I got was DUMB advice (they never give up) and people thinking I should know/remember it all? Every baby is different, none come with instructions. You’ll do FINE. The ups of your next few weeks? When the baby drops you’ll breath better. The downs? The pressure in your pelvic area, legg, butt and other area go numb at times. Google something like THE TRUTH YOUR GIRLFRIEND WOULD TELL YOU ABOUT BIRTH AND NEWBORNS! Big hug, I know it seems like a million miles from your due date, take one day at a time.

I am now 39 weeks and as of 2 weeks ago, 80% effaced. I am sooo ready for my son to be born. My hemorrhoids have started bleeding due to the extreme pressure down low all the time now. And when he moves now it causes extreme pain. I haven’t even slept in my own bed for a week now because it is to uncomfortable. my sofa and sofa pillows are my noghtly companions now. I have tried pizza, spicy foods (like lots of tabasco and jalapenos), artichoke hearts (although i doubted this one), sex (love and leave), nipple stimulation, walking, cleaning, and so far nothing has worked. I am going to try some raspberry leaf tea tonight. If anyone has any other suggestions please let me know.

Rose-I would LOVE to give you a great idea but I went to 42 weeks and then was induced in the hospital. I ate spicy foods but not TO much because my heartburn almost killed me. I tried pineapple, walking, cohosh pills (could not find the liq.) nothing worked. From 36-42 weeks is painful. I DO recommend the Borage pills if you are NOT dilated because that DID seem to work. But they do not induce labor. I searched high and low for ways to get my son out, this is about as good a site as any. I wish you luck! Put the guilt trip on your doctor :) You need the baby out in the next 4 days for the tax write off. Let us know IF anything works for you and when you have your baby boy. Good luck!!! :)

Thanks Jules. Saw my OB today and told me I was fully effaced but cervix closed. Exam was excruciating. Fiance could barely take watching me have the exam. Went through the usual. If nothing happens by 41.5 weeks, will have to induce. Doc is hopnig that it will go on its own this week though. Recommended lots of walking to try to get things moving. So we went to walmart and walked around there for about an hour and half. Couldn’t take more than that. Was still in a lot of discomfort from exam. While there picked up some borage oil. Going to try starting tonight. Already had a couple of stronger contractions but nothing to get excited about. Doc said even the exam could get things started if it was that painful for me. Maybe all of them will come together and get things going. If not, oh well. It’s not much longer. I made it this far, I can wait a few more days.

Rose,

As gross as it IS put a pin (I put a small nick with a shaver) in each pill then insirted them as HIGH as I could get my finger to go. NOT fun, I had to put my leg on counter and at full term not easy. But I DO BELIEVE they dialated me. My son stayed FAR right and head wasn’t engaged so no effacement for me. But your already there the Borage will help. Now walking, I tried!! I also wanted to die those last few exams, WOW those hurt and I had a little blood for 24 hours after to. I hope something helps you. Being induced WASN’T fun (nor was being 42 weeks pregnant :( ) to start on you own would be soooo good. I wish I could tell you one thing I thought helped me but there was only the Borage that seemed to do anything. Now what can we use to help get that “prepregnancy” body back? LOL!!! I am wearing a belly band, it comes off to shower and I think ewwww. JELLY! So one fun for another :) I hope you write and say “I DID IT I’M IN LABOR” in the next few days. You have my ear if you just need to vent. Those last weeks seem like months and people who aren’t pregnant say “be patient…” If the evil eye did anything there would have been a lot of people in the hurt locker :) Big hug your doing great!

Oh, BIG SUGGESTION TO EVERYONE:

Water, water, water! After you GIVE birth start drinking right then, if you can! Peeing on that fresh sore area HURTS for days. The more water you drink the more less concentrated it is, THE LESS IT HURTS, to go. Also BRING prunes or prune juice. I couldn’t do the juice! Eat about 4-6 prunes before each meal. Man, that first week? You hold your breath and well you want to have to PUSH nothing else out of NO WHERE! The prunes made 100% difference. Just enough to make it come out with little effort on my part. Before, buy more pads then you’d ever think you’d need. I RAN out and I thought I really stocked up. ASK for tucks pads and peri wash IN the hospital to use on sore stitched/stretched area’s (you take these home) and get a small bottle to fill with water if you don’t have a handheld shower wand. Those stiches get itchy when they get dried blood in them. You need to rinse a few times a day!! Okay, that was gross but I would have LIKED someone to have reminded me!! The baby is SOOO WORTH all of it, promise :)

I am old fashioned. leave the baby till they feel like they want to come out or the doctor says it’s medically necessary to induce. Better safe than sorry.
I’m only in week 21 though, who knows, by week 37+ I may eat the preachings and try self inducing :)

I like all the info everyone has put out there but iwantt to say that the baby will come when there ready. i think all different methods may help but if there not ready nothing will work. im 39 weeks pregnate and lost my mucus plug 2 weeks ago and was dialated at one at the time. they havent checked since then but sent me for an ultra sound which told me the baby was in position real low. i ate pinnapple yesterday which brought on contractions but they were not consistant and only lasted about three hours. so im gonna keep trying the safe methods even though im done but im not going to risk her so i will be patient. i know my mother always says you cant wait for them to come cause the days will just drag by. live life as normal as possible and before we know it we will be holding our bunddles of joy!!!

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I don’t know why everyone is on Crystal for! I totally understand where she is coming from. Cyrstal don’t listen to any of them who have something negative to say to you because they don’t even know you. Granted you probaly should try and hold out for a couple of more weeks before you try and induce your labor.

Im almost 35 weeks. and ready this will be my 3rd baby. i have read alot of theses not all b/c i just dont have that kind of time, but my doctor said that she would induce me at 37 weeks if i didnt go into labor again. i have went into labor 2 now and they have stopped it. but some of these chicks are very selfish on trying to induce labor at 27 weeks, i mean if you go into labor then thats a different story. but i know several different women that had there baby at 6months and was in perfect health, lungs were fine, everything koshore. but i think its best to wait til your body and baby is ready. unless………. you are almost due like 37-39 weeks and in horific pain then i might try to induce labor myself. but i have heard like drinking a large glass of milk fast and that will work or the sex thing but im not into the sex thing i might try the glass of milk thing but nothing that could harm the baby. i can wait i have two girls and they are plenty but they do want to play with there little brother so we will see what happens, good luck to all you ladies, and whatever you do be safe and just know that lil bebe will be here before you know it. really 3 weeks 1 month isnt that long, expecially when you have other childeren to attend to me, i have my girls and my husband and i know im not alone, so take it easy and wait it out. seriously you wont die, maybe get a lil fatter but thats always what a jym is for.. RIGHT…

Im maybe 24 weeks pregnant and I dont give a fuck if its self fish, I hope I have a child with low birth weight so I dont ruin my body. I never wanted kids. I only kept this one because I chickened out of the 5 abortions I had sceduled due to pressure from the babies father. Our sex life SUCKS, I cant compete with women who are beautiful while Ive only gain less than 10 pounds Im dong everything in my power to not eat so my body isnt ruined. It is more important to me to look good and be attractive than to have a healthy baby or even have a baby at all. I know it sounds terrible but sometimes I hope something would happen either I die during child birht so I dont have to worry about it or that she doesnt make it so I can start excercising already. I want this disgusting gut gone and I just want to be the pretty sexy me. Children ruin your life. If my boyfriend ever leaves me no one will ever want to be with some 30 year old with a fuckin kid. I dont even like kids. I don tven like hanging out with people with kids. I feel like Ive made the biggest mistake of my life

Portia….you are truly a sad individual and have no buisness raising a child. You dont deserve one. I think you need to consider adoption if you loathe your own baby that badly. You should seek mental help. You are saying you dont care if you cause your own unborn childs death. It would be worse for you to cause a birth this early and force a beautiful innocent little baby to suffer and fight for life and go through the pain and torure of dying of a premature birth than it would have for you to have an abortion. And what, you plan to hate the innocent baby for the rest of his/her life? And let them know how much you dont want them? The child does not deserve that. They didnt ask to be brought here. That was your decision. Good thing your parents didnt want to throw you away that badly. You should seriously seek counseling for that innocent baby’s sake.

P.S. It is situations like this that breed hate towards children. And you are the type of mother that ends up in the news for abusing or neglecting their child…or worse. I urge you to seek help. You really should not be raising this baby. This child should be in a home with someone who loves them.

Listen Portia if you really dont want that baby let me know ill take it. I have 2 other kids and one on the way. Or take it to the nearest hospital or police station they will take it no questions asked. Like i said ill take it though just email me roniduke58@yahoo.com

Hi ladies I need help! I’m almost thirty seven weeks I have been having contractions since twenty weeks they have just taken me of my medicine and told me he can come and I want him now lol the pain of him pushing and contractions is getting unbearable I haven’t been checked for two weeks now but when I was checked two weeks ago I was dilated 1 and 50%and they could feel his head he has continued to push down and I can take noire today I tried walking clbing stairs on my hands and knees cleaning and a warm bath contractions have picked up but I want to make sure when I go to the dr again thursday they have no choice but to put me in to have him I am desperate an will do anything!any advice wil be greatly appreciated! (I’ve tried sex too…doesn’t work for me I guess)

hi ladies, I am 37 weeks and am not dilated not effaced and I’m just miserable. I have to have my husband help me out of bed due to the fact that i have gained from 129 to 210 with this pregnancy. I really would love to have my miracle soon but it just seems as if everything is working against me. Oh, and I’ve a recent development of pretty painful headaches. Can any one help. PLEASE!!!!!

Im 37 weeks pregnant, Im dilated to 3 and 50% faced. What can I do to put myself into labor. I have tried walking and pizza neither of them worked!

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